For all my ladies and gentleman:)

So, I’ve decided that the quote ‘people of the opposite sex can’t be best friends’ is true…under normal circumstances. Each and every time two people , one male and one female, attempt to become super close friends….one of the two of them develop feelings that happen to be a little stronger than just friends. This sounds like a re-run of a million relationships that you’ve either experienced or that you’re heard and/or seen from your many friends, right? Right. It happens ohhh to many times. And we, as humans, talk ourselves in to believing that one day.. Just one day the ‘best friend’ of ours will fall madly in love with us and realize that he/she has been missing the most important thing in life, us. Well, stop this. Now.

I once read a article…and I’ll post it on here later… That talks about this exact thing. And no matter how much we hope…or we wait…. Or we wish… We just need to put an end to this assumption that our best friend, the ‘love-of-our-life’ is going to fall head over hills for us.

Now listen, I understand that people marry their best friends, right. But in the process of us ending up married to our best friend there are going to be other friends that we have who we will never marry even though we may think we want to very badly. Just remember, especially times like this, that God has placed your perfect prince or princess on Earth…just for you. To be there to support you, to encourage you to be a better person, to pray with you, to help you grow closer to God, to lead you in Godliness, to be your best friend, your shoulder to cry on, your helper, and your spouse. But….until God intends for you and your future husband/wife to meet……be patient. Don’t sell yourself short or waste time trying to make something work that just isn’t in God’s plan for your life. Don’t allow someone else to be more important than God or yourself and your grand adventures in life. Don’t worry and stress out when that ‘perfect guy’ disappoints you…. Like all ‘perfect guys’ will. Enjoy being single. Enjoy spending an abundant amount of time with God and experiencing real overflowing love and romance. We don’t need anything, or anyone else, when we have God and his amazing wonderful grace and love. We are so truly blessed and somethings, in the midst of our doubting and sadness about people of the opposite sex, we miss how glorious and perfect God’s love is.

So, take time for you and your romantic perfect God. 
Take time to work on your relationship with him.
He’ll take care of all the rest……..promise:)